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Contact Us:
Grace Adoptions
1(501) 764-0677 1(866)
227-2767 (toll free)
fax: 1(501) 513-3080
1150 Clifton Street
Conway, AR 72034
graceadoptions@gmail.com
There are 2
types of adoptions:
As you can see,
the levels of openness are as varied as the parties to the adoption want
them to be. Grace Adoptions will help you with the decision
process regarding what is the best type of adoption for you.
You can
reach us at all times of the day or night through our toll-free number,
866-227-2767.
We ask that you call in the middle of the night only during emergencies.
Confidential & Open
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BIRTH PARENTS
Pregnant and Considering Adoption?
The decision
to place a child for adoption is a difficult one. It is an act of great
courage and much love. Remember, adoption is permanent. The adoptive
parents will raise your child and have legal authority for his or her
welfare. You need to think about these questions as you make your
decision. You are not “giving your child up.” You
are “giving your child MORE.”
Pregnancy can
affect your feelings and emotions. Are you only thinking about
adoption because you have money problems, or because your living
situation is difficult? These problems might be temporary.
Have you called Social Services to see what they can do, or asked
friends and family if they can help? If you have done these things
and still want to make an adoption plan, you will feel more content with
your decision.
Prospective
adoptive parents are carefully screened and give a great deal of
information about themselves. They are visited in their home
several times by a social worker and must provide personal references.
They are taught about the special nature of adoptive parenting before an
adoption takes place. By the time an agency has approved adoptive
parents for placement, they have gotten to know them very well and feel
confident they would make good parents.
Probably. But
adoption in the 21st century is a lot different from what it used to be
like. Most adopted adults realize that their birth parents placed
them for adoption out of love and because it was the best decision for
the child. Your child will come to realize that a lot of his or
her wonderful traits come from you. And if you have an open
adoption it is likely that you will be able to explain to the child why
you chose adoption.
Some questions to consider are: Do you
want to help decide who adopts your child? Would you mind if a
single person adopted your child, or a couple of a different race than
you? Do you, or you
and your partner think this is best for the baby? Do you have a
good support system to help with the emotions you'll feel after the
adoption? Now it is time to move forward.
Confidential - The birth parents and the adoptive parents never know each other.
Adoptive parents are given background information about you and the
birth father that they would need to help them take care of the child,
such as medical information.
Open - The birth parents and the adoptive parents know something about each
other.
There are different levels of openness:
Least open-
You will read
about several possible adoptive families and pick the one that sounds
best for your baby. You will not know each others full names.
You might meet and talk on the phone during your pregnancy. There
may or may not be contact through Grace Adoptions after the adoption.
More open - You
will meet the adoptive family. Grace Adoptions staff will arrange
the meeting at the adoption agency or attorney's office. You may
meet with the adoptive family several times during your pregnancy and
they will be at the hospital during labor and delivery. They will
send pictures periodically to Grace Adoptions and we will forward them
to you.
Most open - You
and the adoptive parents share your full names, addresses, and telephone
numbers. You stay in contact with the family and your child over
the years, by visiting, calling, or writing each other.
EVERYONE has questions!
Maybe we've already answered
yours.

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